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One of the things that must have become clear to you now is that the way we behave represents the strongest model for our children to follow in their behavior, and we have agreed that if we want our children not to lose their temper, then we must not lose our temper first, and that if we want them to use phrases such as “thank you” and “please”, we must treat them politely first. Well, here is another thing that you must do with your children, and the surprising thing is that many parents face a big problem with this particular matter.
I think the feeling that many parents have is that if you admit your mistake to your child, you are undermining your child's trust in you, and that if you say you are sorry, your child will realize that you are not always perfect. Well, let me tell you something: It won't be long until your children realize this on their own, so maybe you should show them, from time to time, that you are not a perfect person and that you make mistakes sometimes.
And the more you are willing to apologize when you make a mistake, the more your children will know that it is not an understatement to admit that you have made mistakes - adults who follow them as role models do this without any qualms, and they will also see that all people make mistakes and that there is nothing to be ashamed of You admit a mistake, yeah, you are willing to correct it, but there is nothing to be ashamed of. You need to teach your children that their apology should be the instinctive response that comes from them as soon as they realize that they hurt, insulted, upset anyone, or said something inappropriate about anyone.
You need to teach your children that their apology should be an instinctive response.
I would add to this that some adults find it difficult to apologize to anyone, let alone their children. If you find it difficult to apologize when you are wrong, then you should face this situation now before you instill this in your children. Parenthood is a wonderful opportunity to help you overcome your shortcomings before you pass them on to your children.
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