الوضع الليلي
0
Discussing mental illness with your child
12:34:19 2025-09-24 550

It's important to tell your child about your (or your partner's) mental illness - but are you prepared?

Get organised

The same principle used in aircraft emergencies really helps here: put your own oxygen mask on before attempting to help others. In other words, before you talk to your children about your illness, do you really understand it – and have you got yourself ‘in order’?

Understanding the effects of the illness on your behaviour and treatments and support available to you helps you to manage. It’s important for your family too, because when you understand what’s happening you will feel more in control and confident in explaining it to them - particularly your children.

Why tell my child?

Mental illness will likely affect your behaviour which your child might notice but not understand. Talking about the illness helps explain any changes they've noticed in you and the family unit. Without an explanation, they'll try making sense of it themselves. They may make assumptions, misunderstand what is happening and blame themselves.

But how do I tell my child?

You'll need to consider your child’s age and ability to understand information. Even very young children can gain some understanding of what's going on, if told “mummy’s not well, you’ve done nothing wrong and she’s getting help so she can get better.”

When you start the conversation, children are likely to ask questions. You won’t necessarily have all the answers, but being prepared really helps. One discussion is never enough – a shared understanding takes time and children’s questions and needs for information change as they grow. Encourage your children to ask questions or raise concerns whenever they want. 

 

Reality Of Islam

Courage in its Wider Sense

11:31:49   2025-10-18  

Weakness of Will

10:58:7   2025-10-14  

Hypocrisy, an Expression of Fear

12:10:51   2025-10-12  

A Mathematical Approach to the Quran

10:52:33   2024-02-16  

mediation

2:36:46   2023-06-04  

what Allah hates the most

5:1:47   2023-06-01  

allahs fort

11:41:7   2023-05-30  

striving for success

2:35:47   2023-06-04  

Imam Ali Describes the Holy Quran

5:0:38   2023-06-01  

livelihood

11:40:13   2023-05-30  

silence about wisdom

3:36:19   2023-05-29  

MOST VIEWS

Importance of Media

9:3:43   2018-11-05

Illuminations

apologize when you are wrong

7:6:7   2022-03-21

people in need

4:25:57   2023-02-11

true friendship

11:2:27   2022-10-06

the 1st ever brothers

6:14:17   2018-06-21

never answer to your lusts

7:0:55   2022-05-17

good people

11:34:48   2022-06-29



IMmORTAL Words
LATEST Millions of Us Have Likely Lost Our Smell Without Even Realizing It 4 Plane Failures That Are More Common – And Less Dangerous – Than You Think Rain in the Sahara? Climate Change Could Turn the Desert Wetter than Ever What Is the Outlook for Children with Mental Illness? Interpretation of Sura Maryam - Verse 45 Courage in its Wider Sense Brain Fog Epidemic? Memory Problems Have Nearly Doubled in Adults Under 40, Study Finds Scientists Found a 3D Printing Method to Make Metal 20x Stronger Study Warns of Ultimate Extinction as Dolphin Lifespans Plummet When to seek help for your sick child Interpretation of Sura Maryam - Verses 43-44 Weakness of Will